Once I worked with a woman who was very dishonest. She was my supervisor at the Don’t Lose A Happy Family Just For Your Ego Shirt in addition I really love this time. And other staff and I had just started within two weeks. This woman hit another employees car… Which was basically a hit-and-run. I told her she needed to tell the other employee about it… Instead she went on to lie about things. Then she started bullying me a couple months into things and I wasn’t gonna put up with that or tolerate that, So I had lots of ammunition about her lying and so I had somebody else Who could verify my story about the vehicle. When this woman started lying about me I had Enough crap from her and I went straight to human resources. Human resources asked me why I didn’t come forward about this earlier… My response was would you have believe me? I had only been there two weeks when this happened. This employee was such a good manipulator and con artist… But she had everybody fooled. When human resources spoke to her she finally admitted to doing it but she would not offer to pay the other employees damages or anything. She was a total turd. She got fired and rightly so. I have never regretted for a moment turning her sorry butt in. People like that are a disgrace to the company and like a poison to other employees Gary (the owner) went into the warehouse one day and found Kavin standing in the general area where the bully was writhing on the floor in pain. When asked what happened, Kavin said “He fell”. When Gary asked the bully what happened, he looked up at Kavin and said “I fell”. Gary never got the true details, but there was no more bullying done by the bully. The moral of the story is: Don’t underestimate little guys who have fought in a war using guerrilla tactics.Well, she tried verbally abusing me at that point. However, since I had always held my temper previously, she had no idea how strong and loud my voice can get. I screamed back at her, and actually she immediately shut up. I told her off and then left the store with half the customers leaving too and applauding me.
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